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Synchronicity and Law of Attraction

Are you still missing out on getting what you want?  The answers maybe all around you.

 

 

These days we’re all about ATTRACTING what we want into our lives.  the perfect job, relationship, more money, success, ect.. 

 

 

But our minds are so preoccupied with our ordinary and mundane lives (so we think) that we miss out on small but pertinent signs on which direction to take and hunches that lead to confirmations, to let us know we need to explore something further in order to lead us to the thing that we want.

 

 

The answer may lie in the synchronicities of our everyday living…

So, synchronicity is that seemingly random and casual events that really serve a larger dynamic of purpose to the whole.

 

 

Carl Jung believed this to be a glimpse of the underlying order of the universe, a casual connecting principle that links mind with matter. “This underlying connectedness manifests itself through meaningful coincidences that cannot be explained by cause and effect, such synchronicities occur when a strong need arises in the psyche of an individual.”

 

 

Some people brush this off as chance and interestingly enough the more you pay attention to it the more they occur.  The important thing about it is do you actually do something about it? 

 

 

Remember when there is a strong core desire in us, consciously or unconsciously we start attracting things with the same vibrational field and a lot of times we’re directed on how to get there (sometimes in a not so obvious language), so the universe brings us signs that may not always make sense to our minds. 

 

 

For example a friend of mine was having problems with an ex-boyfriend (that was of course her soul mate minus the issues) so her friends set her up on a blind date one night, but stood the guy up in a restaurant.  Meanwhile meeting up with her ex who promised to change, found him that night arguing with another woman who was in the middle of dumping him.  Upset and angry she took the first cab she saw and hopped in.  She was so upset she didn’t notice another passenger.  As it turned out it was the guy who she earlier stood up. Long story short she took this as something she should pursue even though he wasn’t her type.  They turned out to be a great couple!

 

 

Or a friend of mine Mark who wanted so badly to be a journalist but, for some reason couldn’t find a job and wouldn’t take anything else but, and instead of settling he new he was committed to his dream and decided it would find a way to him..  So in the time he had he would play with his kids by drawing and writing that eventually led to a kid’s book.  An agent took notice and the kid’s book did more than well.  Although it becomes a good story, it became great when the agent’s husband was the head of a department at a national TV station that offered him his dream job!

 

 

With all the challenges that’s going on socially and personally where is your life trying to directing you to and are you seeing it pass the random events?

 

 

Maybe we should look deeper into our accidental good or bad fortunes, chance or coincidence.  Maybe we should be looking deeper into our seemingly ordinary and mundane lives to find the underlying signs to our dreams!

What Opportunities Will You Take Away From This Time?

Since we can't get away from the  media whose job is to compell us to watch at the stake of making us fear driven. I thought this would be an appopriate topic with what's going on with the current state of our economy and country.

 

 

I'm sure we can all agree that this is a very challenging time and sadly for some a very difficult time.

 

 

So what can we do after we're done pointing fingers, getting angry, depressed, and scared?

Where there are great challenges there is also an opportunity for resignation towards a profound change that transforms our world.

 

 

This means when we are done wrestling with the outer circumstances we need to get centered and figure out how this situation can serve us. What personally is it trying to activate within us?

 

 

For the entreprenuer what products can you produce and sell that will reflect and benefit the times. Good way to stimulate the economy.

 

 

For those, who've lost their job that they've been at for years, this is an opportunity to finally live your purpose, passion, that thing that you've never full expressed and left on the back burner waiting for the right time.  What would happen if you were finally happy?

 

 

For the family who has to cut down on spending and vacations, what a great time to simplify things by playing games and maybe bike riding together. You might find out it's not so bad after all and your family is actually pretty cool.

 

To the couple who eats  and goes out less, maybe your forced to communicate more intimately and who knows you may actually find each other interesting and that "he's really into you." Or maybe not.

 

 

Since a great asset of a company's success is teamwork and the speed of trust within the company, establish a way that instead of giving extravagant bonuses get creative on how you can find a way to build relationships within the company.

 

 

For those that don't live in the

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and have a different set of personal challenges see what opportunities lie within.

For those that don't have a clear answer on what this may hold for them just know for every challenge is an invitation to believe, trust in the process and become better than you were yesterday and in this process you help to enrich the world and those around you.

 

 

For those of you on Facebook I invite you to my group BREATHE  it's about getting back to simplicity.

 

Love and Light,

 

Amanda Arcilla

 

 

Happy Year Long?

Happy New Year everyone!

I know it’s been a while and I want to thank my loyal readers for sticking with me.  My business has been going through a transition and an amazing one at that!

No New Years resolution here it’s all about  MINDFUL living for the New Year.

..The buzz word is CHANGE for the Year in its self, but change can only take affect when we are mindful of what we are presently doing. 

Is the action I’m taking right now helping me towards what I want to accomplish or is it diminishing the fact of what I want to happen?

Just take a second to view your life and where you want it to go.  I feel we don’t put enough effort into MAKING this moment work for us.

We have to be committed to our success as human beings here.  Remember what we do for ourselves we do for another.

Anyways my plan for this New blog is to be more frequent but short,  I like to share wisdom but not to  over flood everyone.

..So if you resonate with what I’m presently talking about and you would like more information about it.  Feel free to e-mail  me or give me  a call.

Much Love and Light

 Amanda

The Inspiration Within

 

 

 

 

 

Looking for outside inspiration is great and there are a lot of great sources from which we can derive compelling stories that take you to action, a wave of excitement that you ride, and inspiration that validates the amazing capacity a human has to transcend their circumstances.

 

Although often we rely too much on external things to sway our behavior because we

have yet to figure out for ourselves our own genuine driving force. And if we did would

we be accepted for it?

 

 

 We like living on the surface it’s easy and we have plenty of company.  Till the day comes for those who know and acknowledge a spark within of a destiny that they have prolonged long enough, but somehow knew it would come for them to collect on an agreement lost and misinterpreted.

 

 

To truly appreciate inspiration we must acknowledge that in its most honest form is organic, it originates from within not from the outside in, it can never be wavered or judged, like music or notes put together to create sound, music can’t be wrong or right it can only be interpreted by the individual’s personality, it just is and is expressed through us.

 

 

 A great example of this is Michael Angelo and his arts, a divine genius endowed with intense emotional power. Never persuaded by the religion, politics or his contemporaries of his time he allowed the inspiration to flow freely (not judging it with fear of a lack of acceptance from others) through him, and not just to him meaning any outside inspiration he received served to intrigue his core beliefs not relying on other’s input. He honored this force by cultivating it.

 

It is in all of us that seed that seeks to be stimulated and waits patiently to be expressed through life, giving birth to passion.  That thing we so desperately yearn to live with. Then when we have out worn our fears and hang ups that we have inherited can we start feeling and listening to our own voice of inspiration. 

 

And who knows what genius lies beneath, what profound answers will come, a revelation may be discovered, to overflow into experience making a dream a reality. 

 

And for those like me who are obsessed with living optimal health, wanting great relationships, spiritual connection, a rich and authentic life, I would make it my purpose to find the

courage to give myself the permission to be great and successful not because we have earned it through our inherited struggles but because we have inherited it just by being born.

 

The thing we’re looking for usually is the already calling us from within we just need the

courage to listen to it.

 

 

Till next time-Happy Thanksgiving everyone! 

 

 

 

How do I know I’m on the right course, moving in the right direction?

Having just gone to a James Ray live event last night (a success coach and mentor to thousands) I got plugged into some no hype just the truth event, about creating the life we want.

 

It’s always great to be reminded.

 

 

One of the questions that was asked really resonated with me and I wanted to elaborate on this and give my spin on it because I know this is a popular question.

 

 

“How do we know when were on the right course, moving in the right direction?”

 

The moment you choose a desire or an outcome, your life automatically begins moving towards it, “you’re on course.”  And if it’s strong enough in the sense that it’s your souls

desire you will never not get to it.

 

 

Now, the tricky part is how many lessons that are less than pleasing will it take to get there. 

 

 

Life is always giving us opportunities to grow into our dreams it waits for us at every turn and corner waiting for us to surrender and get over our big hang ups (worn out belief systems that no longer serves the journey.)

 

 

Are there more expeditious ways?  Certainly.

 

 

One way is to quickly learn the lessons and know that each moment holds the key.

 

 

Know that where ever you are in life no matter how twisted a situation might look you’ll

Always be given a choice to get back on track.

 

 

Try and see what life it trying to tell you about yourself and the situation at hand and if your bold enough not just to see the truth but, actually answer it, you’ll see that you’re that much closer to your dreams.

 

 

So yes, we will always be on course we might hesitate here and there or linger a little too long in dark places but, eventually we will find the light.

Intuition or Fear

 

This is a great topic not just because we left off on listening to our intuition while being in the mix of things, but it’s also a topic of a question from a fellow coach and blogger.

 

 

The question was “how do we know between intuition and fear?”

 

How can we tell the difference between the insidious logic of fear and intuitive truth?

 

 

Like being afraid to do something because it hasn’t gone well for others, but in reality it’s because you’ve never made that initial step and given it a chance? 

 

Or doing something because everyone else is following a trend and you know innately it’s not serving you.

 

 

Shell Train of www.sensiblecoaching.comsays in her 9/29 issue of Money Knot:

 

Intuition is different from the charged emotion of fear.  Intuition comes subtly and softly.  It’s tone is always neutral.  An intuitive message may be negative, but the tone or delivery will always be neutral.  If you are cranked up on the chemicals of fear you will not receive any messages from you intuition.

 

 

I know for me when I’m working through an issue and I’m over thinking something to the point of obsession it’s because of my critical gremlin is seeping in (fear). My intuition is working for me is when there’s a flash of something and my body feels relief.  “Like thank God you arrived I can relax now!” Next issue please:) 

 

 

I was listening to Jack Canfield author of Chicken Soup for the Soul and one way he knows something is working for him is his body tends to lean forward and when it’s not his posture leans back and it’s that simple for him.

 

Can you distinguish through your fears and intuition and how does that show up for you?

Being Present in the Mix

This blog or the intent was going to be originally how we’re such an ambitious, crazy, success driven society and how we can over come the stresses of it and how chasing this noun stresses us to no end. Blah blah blah

 

 

I’m sure my readers know AMBITION has become a bad word, meaning the actions we’re taking FEELS like we’re stressing, or suppose to be taking hard work.

 

 

But in reality if you want to get anything done (meaning manifesting something) there are steps to be accomplished.

 

 

One of them was inspired by my sweetie.

 

 

This is what I imparted from him; “We had a conversation that turned into something Meaningful” Ladies know what I mean.

 

 

I have a couple of series to come on this topic in upcoming blogs.

 

 

First One Is:

 

Live in the moment –be present in whatever you’re doing. 

Be present in whatever life is showing you- BE PRESENT

 

…Yes that means if you’re feeling fear...   You need to assimilate it.  When at that moment you think you might be going crazy FEEL it.  Allow it to ride through you.

 

The reason I say this, is because this moment holds wisdom and intuition for you.

 

Read my next blog for the second series and how you can use your intuition to have your success!

 

 

I just want to say thank you to every one who has something to say about this blog.

Mastering Your Flow

Hello..I hope everyone had a great summer!

 

Well I’m officially back and excited to get back to work.  Thank you to everyone who expressed in missing my blog that means a lot to me.

 

 

I’ll share a couple of things I did for the summer.  Brian and I went to New Jersey for a wedding for a good friend of his.  This is us having alot of fun here.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Another thing was (because I believe we all have a purpose)  I was really working on mastering my flow.  So I could live my passion and be a better coach and of service to the planet.

 

So what does mastering your FLOW mean what is it and most importantly what can it do for you?

 

Mastering the flow is getting to where you want to be professionally, personally or financially without constantly feeling like your in conflict with the world and constant struggle.  Success comes a little easier.  Things and people start showing up to help you set the stage for you to experience more of what you want.

 

 

American Olympian Michael Phelps, our beloved Oprah and Walt Disney to name a few all mastered the flow.  They all followed what they loved regardless of the obstacles no matter what the world told them they couldn’t or could do.

 

For them things might seem easy but, that’s because when you follow your natural talents without resisting you stop paddling against the current and for most of us we are struggling UPSTREAM remember everything you want is DOWNSTREAM.

 

When we stress about having to do this and that and having to look a certain way about doing something we are pointed UPSTREAM and we can feel that anxiety to hurry internally this constricts the natural flow for things to happen for you.

 

When we are relaxed and trusting that we are doing all we can and that everything is working for us, notice all the seemingly green lights that grace us even quicker.  This is DOWNSTREAM..  Not resisting or fighting as Abraham would say “no paddle needed.”  It’s a swifter and sweeter ride.

 

So if there’s something that your working towards or wanting to experience notice how your going about it.  Your emotions will give you an insight to how well you’re are doing as far as it materializing for you.

 

Master your flow at this moment because this moment is all you have that will in turn affect your future.  Feel good at this moment and leave the desperation strategy and watch all the amazing adventures unfold.

 

All comments and questions are welcomed, always great to hear from you.

 

Let me know what you’re thinking.

 

I’m revising my site and working on other projects to share with everyone. I will keep you posted.

The Art of Goofing off

With the talk of the economy being down and because we're such a success driven country sometimes we forget to even take a breath.  I was once taught that it isn't always the action that will lead to success.

It's the intention that we put forth in doing something.  If we're constantly on high speed and stressed that's what will get more of. We get what we vibrate.

I know for me I have the syndrome of feeling I should be able to do everything on my own, which of course is crazy.  Especially right now with all the projects I have going on.  I just need to get out of my own way.

A good friend and fellow coach shares the fact that if we dive into work with struggles and effort "supposed to" "to should do" then we're likely not vibrating a happy ending.  She goes on to say "taking action without managing your energy is a fools path."

So she taught me to relax by way of goofing off, "I'm serious she big on this and I'll take her up on this."

The gift of goofing off won't work unless you believe in it, it's not recommended till you understand the power it holds.  If you can remember we get what we vibrate, so anything that makes you feel good or better will serve you.

I went to some experts on this one:

Noah- my 2yr.old nephew likes to put all his little trucks in a line so it ends up being a train.

My cats- just like looking and playing with occasional pouncing from one another.

For me -longs walks on the beach with Brian,reading a book at the bookstore, once in a while I'll take my colored pencils out and start drawing and good ol daydreaming!

Brian-Likes to jump on the computer after work to see what's up with his eagles.. anything babe?

So if your taking life way to seriously and your mind is running it's own show I suggest you practice the art of goofing off believe me you'll be open to more things like life being alot smoother, "and we can all use that!

So let me know how you goof off?  I'd love to hear them.

For a free consultation on coaching you can reach me at: 954-237-3118 or aarcilla1@hotmail.com

Getting Hip to Your Purpose

Hello everyone,

 

 

I know it’s been a while.  Hopefully I’ve been missed!

 

I’m working on different cool projects read on to find out one of them.  Meanwhile here’s a tip to..

Getting hip to your Purpose

 

 

Most everyone wants to live a purposeful life, that is when they find out what that is. Early on in my life I use to say “one of the hardest things in life is to figure out what you want to do in life in terms of fulfillment and a profession.”  As most of us know saying this enough is a self fulfilling prophecy.

 

 

So I struggled between the experience of what looked acceptable and normal till I figured internally what I was suppose to be doing .

 

 

We are a society forever chasing and in a constant state of searching for what we’re suppose to be doing but in all actuality we have forgotten we are the Purpose.

 

 

Eckhart Tolle reinforces this in A New Earth, he writes our primary (inner purpose) is to awaken through consciousness and we share this with each person on the planet it is the purpose of humanity.   Your outer purpose can change over time, a vehicle in a chosen field or career.  It is when you’re living in alignment with the inner purpose and it becomes the foundation for filling your outer purpose, this is where "feeling whole" comes from.

 

 

We cannot find our purpose through anything external, Maria Shriver  in her book Who Will I Be, had an identity crisis after she became first Lady Of California when Arnold became governor, she was fired and had to give up her title as a journalist on NBC because of conflict of interest.

 

 

Because her main identity of herself was this role that when she lost it ,it forced her to see we are more than what we do, but what we are being in the bigger picture.  She grew up where in the Kennedy family it was highly competitive and you were always doing, she didn’t know you could take a breath.  Who knew?

 

 

If you want to get a little closer to what your suppose to be doing it’s more accessible than we think.  start off by being still and connecting yourself with the silence.

 

For all my LOA fans and students as Abraham would say "our purpose is in the Joy!"

 

 

If you’d like to get hip on your purpose drop me a line or ask me a question.  Comments are welcome to share what’s working for you as well.

 

 

Coming attractions: In a few weeks, look for my free, fun, resource packed and informative ezine on ways to creating and instigating the life you want !

 

 

Attraction Coach

Amanda Arcilla

954-237-3118